Lifesuccessnz personal development

Listening to your inner voice is important, why I day that is because we have gut feeling when it really our inner guide telling us something not right for us. Have you ever experience that? I know I do experience it on a daily basis. If you have faith in something bigger than your self then its time to listen to that inner guidance of the universal God. Check out my YouTube video of the podcast episode about listening to the inner voice within.  Lori from Lifesuccessnz xx

Rising above trauma  What happens if the trauma is intense that it doesn't feel as if you can handle the question? I lost two brother's to suicide, my brother put a gun to his head blast his brain and that is hard to forget. I had to adjust my view of my thoughts about my relationships and my place in the world. You ask yourself the question how do I get through it? I know it hurts too much but there’s a way through the emotional process. There's no way to explain order of trauma. Someone else's experience may seem more or less than our own but we need to get real about it. What's important is not the event itself, not the suffering as such, but how we make sense of it. Many people experience challenging life events that they thought they could not overcome. But I am that example for those who have been through depression and tragic loss in their lives. How do you embrace life again after the experience? How do they get better? How do they learn to emerge with rene...

Since relationships are normally two-sided, you can be responsible only for your part. But relating to someone else also brings a merging, so it is not easy to separate out what was. A leader follows one general rule that is when things are going well, praise the other person; when things are not going well be responsible for changing them. If you wait for another person to change things, or themselves then you are fooling yourself. You might end up waiting a long time for the person to change, you must arrive at self-sufficiency which is the realization that you are enough don't be someone you are not. You never need another person to complete you. Once this truly sinks in, you will stop asking others to change in order for you to feel better. It's not their responsibility; it doesn't show how much they care, and no matter how they try you might wind up feeling bad anyways. You reverse the belief that relationships are too hard. If you convince yourself that you can comp...

The leadership of the soul  Having a good leadership in your life is helpful in overcoming life's challenges we face.  Being a good example is your job in life. You will be able to show how you can improve your life by being that example for others. We all want someone to be a good example but where do we find it? It not easy but I find them in self help books for example Gabby Bernstein or Jay Shetty. The more you improve your life you will inspire others to do it. When people ask me how do I get through the hard stuff in life I just say I stay strong with courage to face whatever comes my way. I confronted a lot in my life so I had the courage to confront them. The leadership practice is  gratitude and compassion.  Being strong with courage.  Being a learner regardless.  Leading with heart. Perfectionism doesn’t work to be a leader you are the example of learning and embracing mistakes. Don’t feel shame you are here to be a good example and leade...

Gaining control from events Have you ever heard someone say "I've lost control of my life"? There have been times where I've said to myself "man I can't get in control of myself"! What I'm really saying is I'm no longer in control of my events in my life which means I am reacting to these situations. Being out of control is a horrible feeling but we can feel like we got control by accepting with love and grace. To be honest what person has almost absolute total control over the events in his or her professional environment? Everything we experience is an event time is events so are you going to take more control by changing how you respond to events? What is important is not that there are uncontrollable events in our lives, but how we respond to them. Often the most realistic response is to adapt . Unless you want to stress yourself out that's the other option. To describe how a person can feel inside when faced with events they can't c...