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Since relationships are normally two-sided, you can be responsible only for your part. But relating to someone else also brings a merging, so it is not easy to separate out what was. A leader follows one general rule that is when things are going well, praise the other person; when things are not going well be responsible for changing them. If you wait for another person to change things, or themselves then you are fooling yourself. You might end up waiting a long time for the person to change, you must arrive at self-sufficiency which is the realization that you are enough don't be someone you are not. You never need another person to complete you. Once this truly sinks in, you will stop asking others to change in order for you to feel better. It's not their responsibility; it doesn't show how much they care, and no matter how they so call try you might end up feeling bad anyways. Some people can be narcissistic so be careful. You reverse the belief that relationships are...

Learning experience from sexual abuse Have you ever been through abusive relationship or sexually abused by someone?  I can tell you I have more than once that’s right 3 times I been sexually assaulted by men and more than one partner abused me mentally and violently, so I do understand the hard road to feeling comfortable in your own skin. I went through court cases and trails it is not easy but I didn’t give up on my life I kept seeking that inner peace we all look for in our lives. I found that peace by acceptance you can’t change what happened but you change how you see it, Want to know how? Then let me explain it to you. The first thing to you need to do is say to yourself “I am loved through the universe, I am loved unconditionally”. Trust me I know it is hard to say that or believe that the universe loves you but it never intended you to be abused in the first place that person made that choice to do it and they will be punished regardless. The second thing we are going to d...

A MAP FOR THE ROAD AHEAD LEADERSHIP Leadership is an evolving journey. The twists and turns lying before us are unpredictable. But you can be provided with a map that the universe provides us. it makes us stronger than we think as well. The text that follows divides the map into parts.  First of all, I have to lay out the core of what it means to lead from the soul L-E-A-D-E-R-S  with each letter out lining a key aspect of defining your vision and then bringing it to fruition.  Make sure every day you feel prepared mentally and physically. Your role is important even if you are a parent you got to be that example. Watch the video below 👇  L = Look and listen do this with your senses, as an unbiased observer who has not judged anything in advance. Do it with your heart, obeying your truest feelings. Do it with your soul, responding to the vision and deep purpose it provides.  E = Emotional bonding leading from the soul means going beyond the melodrama o...

Authentic self  Being your authentic self is so important stop being someone you are not! I know how hard it is to be a person that you are proud to be, and don't get me wrong we all do it. I know we are afraid of being this authentic thing that god or the universe created. it is challenging on a daily basis. So, how do we be our authentic truth? Well, I'm here to explain that embracing who you are is pure magic, why I say that is because who you are is the most amazing thing a person could ever see and be expressed. I have always been this rock chick within always authentic with my style and within I had something deeper than just the image it's how spiritual I was and why I had faith in the universe. Every experience I've had with my authentic side I explored music and became well known for a song a created 12 years ago which I am proud of. I loved the rock chick fashion and dark makeup that makes my blue/green eyes pop out at you, I even created content for coach...

We definitely creatures of habit, whether we like it or not. Even though the inertia of habit's often keeps us in our comfort zone instead of reaching our goal's, habits per say are not all bad. In fact, life would be boring without habits. If all our actions were at the conscious level, we would be effectively paralyzed by the sheer mass of information we would have to process. Would accomplish little if we don't try to have new habits to form regularly. Habit's allows us to perform thousands of tasks and routine's without create mental overload. It is important to have a morning routine in order to have a purpose to wake up to everyday. The question you ask yourself is this: Am I willing to develop good habits or am I content to creating bad ones? No matter how uncomfortable your circumstances are you are a role model for others in your life.  You probably have very strong habits and connections that you take for granted each day. For example, your brain is probab...

The leadership of the soul  Having a good leadership in your life is helpful in overcoming life's challenges we face.  Being a good example is your job in life. You will be able to show how you can improve your life by being that example for others. We all want someone to be a good example but where do we find it? It not easy but I find them in self help books for example Gabby Bernstein, Jay Shetty or Mel Robbins.  The more you improve your life you will inspire others to do it. When people ask me this question “how do I get through the hard stuff in life”? I just say to people “I stay strong with courage to face whatever comes my way”. That includes tragedies of suicide. I confronted a lot in my life so I had the courage to confront them. The leadership practice is  gratitude and compassion.  Being strong with courage.  Being a learner regardless.  Leading with heart. Perfectionism doesn’t work to be a leader you are the example of learning ...