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Learning experience from sexual abuse Have you ever been through abusive relationship or sexually abused by someone?  I can tell you I have more than once that’s right 3 times I been sexually assaulted by men and more than one partner abused me mentally and violently, so I do understand the hard road to feeling comfortable in your own skin. I went through court cases and trails it is not easy but I didn’t give up on my life I kept seeking that inner peace we all look for in our lives. I found that peace by acceptance you can’t change what happened but you change how you see it, Want to know how? Then let me explain it to you. The first thing to you need to do is say to yourself “I am loved through the universe, I am loved unconditionally”. Trust me I know it is hard to say that or believe that the universe loves you but it never intended you to be abused in the first place that person made that choice to do it and they will be punished regardless. The second thing we are going to d...

Handling abuse and rise above it I been abused by men and other people. However… no one is perfect but knowing how to handle it is important. I was sexually abused and the guy got community sentence but it doesn’t stop the person from harassing & stalking me. I  will rise above the negative behaviour. Don’t be afraid to be strong and never let anyone destroy your inner child within. A book I highly recommend is Rising strong by Brene' Brown it worth reading. However, it d oesn't matter if it sexual or violent still no form of abuse is not okay! As a life coach I have learned a lot from my own experience's. Why stay to be used & abused by people? do you know the signs? If not then you need to learn them. Take responsibility for yourself today! You don't have to stay in the situation and you can walk away, leave the person to deal with their issues on their own, I been there with many people even my own family abuse each other and sexual relationships g...

Finding safety and security  Right now you possibly struggling to get through whatever it is you faced with, I know what that feels like. I went through a lot of hard times from a tragic loss to broken relationships it never comes easy in life. It's like a huge wave you have to ride until it passes. I can tell you right now that you will get passed it by believing in yourself more, even when others think differently about you. My own siblings see that I'm the problem when it is themselves with issues. I go through times of pure frustration and struggle with it that's when I need spiritual path to help me get through it knowing a spiritual universal god loves me unconditionally even when people don't love me at all in this world. Having faith in something gives us hope that we will get through it. When we struggle with safety and security within us this is when we need to remember the universe has our backs, god is with us in this universe we are not alone, why do I say ...