Lifesuccessnz personal development

Overcome perfection   Perfectionism is a terrible thing and we adopt it out from our best intentions because we want to be good or “perfect” we want to be seen as we don’t make mistakes. But you can’t become a better version of yourself unless you accept your current version of yourself and this is self love. ❤️  Transformation does not happen in thin air.  Reflection points  You might feel discontent because something is not to your liking not perfect.  You might feel anxious or overwhelmed  You might feel stuck not sure where to go  When you catch yourself in such moments stop and take a deep breath, and then give yourself permission to not be perfect.  We are not designed to be perfect so let’s be kind to ourselves. Watch video below 👇  Overall it’s about accepting yourself as you are. I’m not perfect I have epilepsy but I live life the best I can regardless of the circumstances. It’s important to remember that you are amazing regard...

Self love &imperfection Before we reach our potential we have to first believe we have some and that we’re worthy of it and this can be a massive hurdle if we struggle to love ourselves. That's why Gala Darling created radical self love her book is sold in local nz stores. It’s an issue for so many and one we don’t often talk about. I used to find it hard to love myself. I would constantly focus on the things I didn’t have and what was wrong with me, always overlooking the things that were good about my life and about me as a person. I never felt good enough and even after trying to make my life as good as possible I still felt like I was acting in a play and would get found out as not being as good as people seemed to think including siblings. The perfectionism was causing more harm than I thought which lead me to not love myself enough. This lack of confidence plus my ability to focus on the negatives, not the positives, would hold me back. I would look at other people an...