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  We live in an information-saturated world. Between work emails, industry articles, books, and the endless stream of online content, there’s always something demanding our attention. If you’ve ever wished you could get through your reading list faster, you’re not alone. The good news? With the right techniques, you can significantly increase your reading speed while still retaining what matters. Understanding How We Read Before diving into techniques, it’s helpful to understand what slows us down. Most people read at about 200-300 words per minute, but several habits act as speed bumps: Subvocalization is the silent voice in your head that “speaks” each word as you read. While it helps with comprehension, especially for complex material, it limits your reading speed to roughly your speaking pace. Regression happens when your eyes jump back to reread words or sentences you’ve already covered. Sometimes this is intentional, but often it’s an unconscious habit that fragments your rea...

  A broken finger might seem like a small injury, but when you rely on your hands for your goals—whether that’s fitness, music, art, work, or daily activities—it can feel like everything has come to a halt. The good news? A broken finger doesn’t have to break your momentum. Here’s how to keep moving forward. Assess what’s actually off-limits First, follow your doctor’s orders about what you absolutely cannot do. But also ask specifically what you can do. Many people assume a broken finger means total inactivity, but often you have more options than you think. Can you modify your grip? Use your other hand more? Protect the injury while still engaging in certain activities? Get clarity on your real boundaries. Embrace your non-dominant hand If you broke a finger on your dominant hand, this is your chance to develop ambidexterity. It’ll feel awkward at first, but your brain is incredibly adaptable. Whether you’re typing, writing, eating, or performing other tasks, your non-dominant ha...

  We’ve all been there. Including myself as I broke my finger in January 2026. You’re making progress, momentum is building, and then—an injury sidelines you. Whether you’re training for a marathon, building a fitness routine, or working toward any physical goal, injuries can feel like devastating setbacks. But they don’t have to derail everything you’ve worked for. Acknowledge the emotional impact First, it’s okay to feel frustrated, disappointed, or even angry. An injury isn’t just a physical setback—it can shake your confidence and disrupt the identity you’ve been building. Allow yourself to process these feelings rather than pushing them aside. Give yourself a day or two to feel the disappointment, then shift your focus forward. Seek proper medical guidance Before anything else, get a proper diagnosis. Self-diagnosing or ignoring the injury often leads to longer recovery times. A healthcare professional can give you a realistic timeline and help you understand what activities a...

 We’re already into February, and if you’re like most people, some of those ambitious New Year’s resolutions might be gathering dust. But here’s the thing: transformation doesn’t require a complete life overhaul. Sometimes, the catalyst for meaningful change comes from something as simple as opening a book. Self-help books have earned their reputation for good reason. They’re not magic pills, but they are powerful tools that can shift your perspective, provide actionable strategies, and help you navigate whatever challenges this year throws your way. Here’s why picking up a self-help book might be one of the best decisions you make in 2026. You Get Access to Concentrated Wisdom Think about it: most self-help books represent years, sometimes decades, of research, experience, and insight compressed into a few hundred pages. You’re essentially getting a shortcut to knowledge that took someone else a lifetime to accumulate. Whether it’s a psychologist sharing breakthroughs in habit for...

 The turn of the calendar offers something powerful: permission. Permission to reassess, to let go, to begin again. While there’s nothing magical about January 1st, the collective energy of renewal can be a useful catalyst for genuine change. But here’s the thing—a fresh mindset isn’t about becoming someone entirely different. It’s about clearing away what no longer serves you and making space for what does. Let Go of What’s Weighing You Down Before you can move forward, it helps to acknowledge what you’re carrying. Maybe it’s an outdated belief about your capabilities, a grudge you’ve been nursing, or simply the habit of saying yes when you mean no. The new year isn’t about perfection; it’s about honesty. What do you actually want to release? Write it down if that helps. Sometimes seeing it on paper makes it easier to set down. Clarify What Matters Now Fresh mindsets come from fresh priorities. What mattered to you last year might not be what matters now, and that’s okay. People c...

 Trauma leaves marks on us that go far deeper than memory. It reshapes how we see ourselves, how we move through the world, and most profoundly, how we treat ourselves in our most vulnerable moments. The journey back to self-care and self-love after trauma isn’t about erasing these imprints—it’s about slowly, tenderly learning to write new ones. When Care Feels Foreign After trauma, self-care can feel like speaking a language you once knew but have somehow forgotten. The basic acts—eating regularly, sleeping through the night, asking for what you need—become monumental. This isn’t weakness or failure. Trauma fundamentally disrupts our sense of worthiness, our belief that we deserve gentleness, rest, or joy. Many survivors find themselves caught in a painful paradox: they know intellectually that they should care for themselves, yet some deep, wounded part believes they don’t deserve it. Or perhaps hypervigilance has become so ingrained that rest feels dangerous. The body that once ...