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  As we stand at the threshold of a new year, there’s something electric in the air—a sense of possibility, a fresh start, a blank canvas waiting for us to paint our aspirations upon it. The new year brings with it that rare cultural moment where we collectively pause, reflect, and ask ourselves: what do I want to achieve? But here’s the thing about New Year’s goals: they’re notorious for fizzling out by February. We’ve all been there—ambitious January declarations that quietly fade into the background of our busy lives. So this year, let’s approach goal-setting a little differently. Beyond the Resolution Instead of thinking about resolutions—which often feel like rigid mandates we impose on ourselves—what if we thought about intentions? Goals aren’t just checkboxes to tick off; they’re invitations to become the person we want to be. When setting goals for the year ahead, consider asking yourself: What do I want to feel more of? Maybe it’s joy, connection, peace, or accomplishment....

  There’s something undeniably magnetic about a fresh calendar year. As December fades and January arrives, we feel it: that surge of possibility, the sense that we can finally become the person we’ve been meaning to be. The gym memberships spike, the journals get cracked open, and we declare with genuine conviction that this year will be different. But here’s what most of us discover by February: willpower alone isn’t enough. The “new you” can’t be built on enthusiasm that burns bright and fast. Real, lasting change requires something deeper than a resolution scribbled on January 1st. So how do we make this year actually different? Start With Why, Not What Before you list out your goals, pause and ask yourself a more fundamental question: why do these changes matter to you? Not why you think they should matter, or why someone else thinks they should matter, but why they genuinely matter to you. Want to exercise more? Dig deeper than “I should be healthier.” Maybe it’s because you ...

Life doesn’t follow a script. Just when you think you know where the story is heading, it throws you a curveball that changes everything. But here’s what I’ve learned: sometimes the plot twists we never saw coming are exactly what save us. When Rejection Became Redirection I thought my world was ending when I didn’t get married and someone abused my trust. I’d already imagined my entire future with this person, until they abused me. The experience of being abused felt like a door slamming in my face. Years later I stumbled into an opportunity I never would have considered if I’d gotten that experience of recording my first song Chill in my vein. It turned out to be exactly where I needed to be, with people who appreciated my work that actually lit me up inside. That rejection wasn’t a closed door—it was a course correction I didn’t know I needed. The Friendship That Appeared at Rock Bottom During my darkest season, when I was convinced I had to handle everything alone, a casual acqu...

 Manifesting has become a cultural phenomenon, with millions of people exploring how their thoughts and intentions might shape their reality. But beyond the social media trends and viral testimonials, what does manifesting really mean, and how can you approach it in a grounded, meaningful way? What Is Manifesting? At its core, manifesting is the practice of bringing your desires into reality through focused intention, visualization, and aligned action. It draws from various philosophical and spiritual traditions, including the Law of Attraction, which suggests that positive or negative thoughts bring corresponding experiences into a person’s life. While some view manifesting through a metaphysical lens—believing that thoughts directly influence the universe—others see it as a practical psychological tool that helps clarify goals, shift mindset, and motivate action. The Psychology Behind It There’s compelling psychological science that explains why manifesting practices can be effec...

  We all have that inner voice—the one that sometimes whispers (or shouts) criticisms, worries, and doubts. For some of us, that voice has become the dominant narrator of our lives, coloring every experience with negativity. If you find yourself automatically expecting the worst, dwelling on mistakes, or struggling to see any positive possibilities, you might be caught in the grip of a negative mindset. The good news? Mindsets aren’t permanent. With awareness and practice, you can shift toward healthier, more balanced ways of thinking. What Is a Negative Mindset? A negative mindset is a habitual pattern of thinking that focuses predominantly on the unfavorable aspects of situations, yourself, and the world around you. It’s not just occasional pessimism or having a bad day—it’s a consistent lens through which you interpret your experiences. This mindset often shows up as automatic negative thoughts that feel true even when they’re not based in reality. These thoughts can become so f...

  The new year offers a natural moment to pause, reflect, and set intentions for the months ahead. While resolutions often fade by February, journaling creates a sustainable practice for genuine self-improvement. These prompts will help you explore your past year, clarify your values, and design a more intentional future. Reflecting on the Past Year Before rushing forward, take time to honor where you’ve been. These questions help you extract wisdom from your experiences. What were three moments this past year when you felt most alive? Describe them in detail. What made these moments special? What patterns do you notice? What challenges did you face, and what did they teach you? Consider both the struggles and the growth that emerged from difficulty. Who had the biggest positive impact on your life this year? How did they influence you, and have you expressed your gratitude? What habit or belief did you outgrow? Sometimes growth means shedding what no longer serves us. If you could...