You are responsible for your relationships

Since relationships are normally two-sided, you can be responsible only for your part. But relating to someone else also brings a merging, so it is not easy to separate out what was.
A leader follows one general rule that is when things are going well, praise the other person; when things are not going well be responsible for changing them. If you wait for another person to change things, or themselves then you are fooling yourself. You might end up waiting a long time for the person to change, you must arrive at self-sufficiency which is the realization that you are enough don't be someone you are not. You never need another person to complete you. Once this truly sinks in, you will stop asking others to change in order for you to feel better. It's not their responsibility; it doesn't show how much they care, and no matter how they try you might wind up feeling bad anyways. You reverse the belief that relationships are too hard.
If you convince yourself that you can completely alone you are deluded to think that but we all face that thought some way or another. Release past relationships don't drag it into your present relationships you have with your family and friends. Most important is to feel connected with your authentic truth of who you are and know you are loved by the universe that is how we attract the right person into your life.
Love who you are my friend.

Lori from Lifesuccessnz xx


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