Dealing with negative people

 I’ve come across a number of people who are so negative they have nothing positive to say and they drag other people down. It’s not okay for anyone to do that it is so cruel and disgusting behaviour towards others. Please don’t be this way to people it’s not fair at all. They think they know you but they don’t know you deep down. 

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These negative behaviours is not ok at all, you can’t treat people like that. We got to hold up our heads face this with courage my friends these negative behaviours are not appropriate but you got to stand strong and know you are more positive than they will be because they refuse to learn what being positive means. Don’t put up with the abuse! 

Being a better person means you will not be dragged down by someone else’s negativity. Stand tall and strong! Because it’s not ok for someone to bully someone else regardless. I know from experience even as a coach I get this crap all the time and they can’t handle the truth being told to them. Don’t tolerate it and let them do this even if you are in school being bullied don’t let it affect your mental health. This is why I use cbt cognitive behavioural therapy. I remind myself that it is not okay for someone to drag you down and stand strong and know what is right for you. Take care and know you are worthy of someone being a better person to you than a negative attitude of someone who has no respect or right to abuse you. 

Shinelyour light!

Watch video below 👇 about how to handle negative people.


Lori from Lifesuccessnz 

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