How to be a positive influence in others

 How to be a positive influence on others 

Our self belief influences others beliefs. It will change how they behave around others too. 

How you speak to yourself is important to notice.

This is why I teach cognitive behavioural therapy to people as it relates to their own behaviour and thoughts about their situation is and how they influence others. So, we need to be mindful of how we think within ourselves as much as possible. This approach applies to children as well.

What we do impacts others and that is why my work for you guys influences how you handle things.

So what I create I hope has an impact on you. 🙂

What can you do today to change your mindset and behaviour now? What we say and do has an impact on someone else and this is why we must Change our mindset and behaviour in order to be a good influence on others for example my brothers children who are adults now and what I say and do impacts them and they need me to be a good example for them in order to make a positive change in others around them. So think about it. We all do it. Having a positive mindset helps others in our life too! Let’s not have the limiting beliefs that hold us down when we can be an impact on someone else. Identify strengths in yourself first before others can. For example you can say to someone that it takes courage to face what negative challenges they have faced and how you admire their courage to face it. This is where you see it in yourself first then the other person. This will inspire them to hold their head high. Self-esteem is important for yourself and others but you must work on yourself in order to help someone else. Make sure you celebrate all strengths. Remember look at the positives (talents, skills, interests, and the likes) praise yourself and the other person. Give yourself and other person an opportunity to show abilities frequently. This will reinforce positive behaviour. Even if the other person still has negative feelings please accept that it is existing. 

Let's look at CBT known as cognitive behavioural therapy and this is our tool for changing our thoughts and behaviour that will impact others in the long run. 

Imposter syndrome can be a sign that needs to change. And the way you treat yourself and not love who you are will impact your child in the future.

Also you can watch this video that talks about this subject as well. 

I hope it helps you understand what you can do to be a positive influence on others.

Lori from Lifesuccessnz xx