How to handle dating

 



Dating can be difficult and a challenging mission. Some men can be jerks but women can be just as bad. 

So how do we deal with it? 

We got to keep an eye out for those who just want to use you and be players those people are negative and don’t understand their behaviour is not healthy. You got to be careful and keep an eye out for these bad behaviours that people have when dating. It not fair for others when using them or testing many other people because you are afraid to be hurt. You got to just face your fears but don’t let them abuse your trust regardless. If someone is a narcissist and shows that behaviour don’t go there with them get out of the situation fast. You are worthy of so much more. Be mindful of what you are seeing when dating someone. There will be people who just want sex and that is not a good thing to do. If they don’t respect your values and boundaries then they are not worthy of your time. Regardless be honest with the person and if they respect you for who you are then that means they have respect for you. 


They’re dating other people, and you’re not happy about it 

If your date tells you they’re seeing other people, you may be fine with it, but you might also feel awkward. We get that it’s the first date, but no one wants to know they’re just another person. If they’re telling you about other people they’re seeing, it’s quite likely they’re not looking for something serious. If you are, this is one of the signs of a bad first date.  Even if they are honest about it don’t date the person who is dating other people if they don’t want to date you one on one.

We are not perfect but we got to be careful of how we treat others. 

So, be mindful of how the person treats you when dating and if they are not being respectful by any means then ditch them. Hope this helps you on your dating journey. Check out this article 👇

https://tranquilitynz.blogspot.com/2024/09/overcoming-fear-of-being-hurt-and.html


Lori from Lifesuccessnz xx

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