Who do you want to be?

Video about your authentic truth  

Who do you want to be? 

That’s a good question right? We all want to know what type of person we want to be. If you don’t know what type of person you want to be then let’s look at that together. 
We all can feel lost and question ourselves during this time of wondering who we want to be. Well, big clear question is what do you value? But often they are inherent road from parents or school or society where the expectation are higher than we want them to be. No one needs a backseat driver of our lives. Take control. Put yourself in the driver seat. Know what matters to you. They are basic essential beliefs that we have about ourselves. They guide and motivate us towards purposeful actions. Family, creativity, integrity, kindness, justice. There are many values, what’s yours? Write a list of what you value. Make sure you set boundaries not tolerate anyone else’s opinions of who you should be. 


You will overcome a lot of obstacles in life to become a good person in life. I know from my own experiences. Check out video about authentic self. 


We all want to be authentic. Here is a video you can watch on Ted Bevy Smith: How to discover your authentic self -- at any age 

Ask yourself the question what person you want to be. List down what do you want to do with your life.
Thinking positive thoughts is important regardless change your negative thoughts to positive thoughts regularly throughout your day. 

The more we understand who we are within and accept ourselves then we shouldn't have any shame on who you are. Does't matter what size you are no one should dictate who you are. Check out my other blog related to this one https://tranquilitynz.blogspot.com/2022/05/being-your-best-self.html 

Watch this video below 👇 


Being your best self is not an easy task but it a journey we go through. It’s a challenge but a life changing experience. This is something we do every year to improve on our life to be our best self. This takes time but the more you make that effort the more you will be the best self you have always wanted to be.
Write down in your journal 

These questions and answers to them.
WHO and where do I want to go with my life? 
What type of person do I want to be?
Am I ready to transform myself? 
Where and what do I want to do with my life?


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Lori from Lifesuccessnz 

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